Treat Yourself Better

Now is the time to be self-centered. If you want to treat others well, start with self. The one person you can influence the most is yourself. Stop worrying about trying to change another. Yes, others are essential but not as significant as you. Discontinue the terrible habit of stressing what others will do. Focus within and begin the process at home. When you start to handle yourself on better terms, you create positive energy within and around. This energy is contagious.

This crusade is pure and giving. To give oneself more love will permit one to give more to another. Only when we know our ourselves can we give to another. In the process of being kinder, you will make others around you better too. All mankind craves positivity and good energy nearby. This is of great importance now more than ever. Lacking a new goal for the year? Do stare within and make others better.

Treat Yourself Better, Photo by Spencer Davis

Whatever happens, be a true friend to yourself. Have an abundance of patience and compassion during these barren times. There is much uncertainty throughout and being a little gentler will be of comfort. Building character means building up self-worth. Everyone is suffering and one is never alone in the pain. The hurt and feelings will pass, just as this unforgettable year. Treating yourself on better terms will allow you to get more out of the negativity and uncertainty. Start today, not on New Year’s Day. A little goodness can and does spread.

With love,

Vedran Agovic